John, what happened to the cat you mentioned in your "Perspective" video? As a cat lover, I must ask. from emilyguilfoil
After a brief and amicable custody battle, Pants the Cat went to live with my ex-girlfriend. We both recognized that my depression made it impossible for me to care for the cat.
She and I last spoke in 2009ish, at which point the cat was still physically healthy and emotionally complex, as cats are supposed to be.
I should add that while breakup narratives are supposed to be about the victimized innocent Dumpee and the horrible evil Dumper, in our case no one was horrible or evil, and I think very highly of the person in question and am so happy that she (and the cat!) are doing well.